After a few cycles of lip kisses with maintained contact, you may
want to open your mouth slowly and move in with your tongue (more
on this a little later). This stage will probably vary greatly depending
on the point in your relationship with this person. A first kiss probably
isn't going to be nearly as heart-felt and as passionate as one with
someone you've kissed often, but you'll know where you are and how
to handle the intensity. React to how your partner is kissing. If
they speed up, speed up with them. If they slow down, do the same.
Try to synchronize your actions with each other but be sure to pay
attention so you don't ruin the whole experience. Eventually you'll
learn to match and complement your partner's kissing rhythms so that
the pleasure and good feelings you get from the kisses are as desirable
as possible.
There is much more to a kiss than just lips and tongues. To experience
the full pleasure of the act you have to be resourceful! Don't forget
to use your hands, your nose, and even your breath to elevate your
passionate kissing ventures to a new level. From personal experience,
I know that a woman loves to be touched while she's being kissed.
Use your hands to gently caress her cheek, her back, the tops of
her arms, and especially her collarbone and jawbone right before
and during the kiss. Rubbing noses is also extremely pleasurable,
and can cause some sexual giggles between the two of you.
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