The first key to becoming a better kisser is to think about how you feel during the whole kissing experience. This may seem selfish, but kissing is a highly reciprocal act. This means that if you feel like the kiss sucks, then the person you are kissing probably does too. Focus on making the other person feel good by relaxing. This includes your whole body, your head and neck, and especially your lips. Loosen up a bit and try to let things just flow. Once you get to know your partner better, you'll start learning their perks and this includes how to sweep them off their feet when you kiss them. If you don't, you won't have to worry for long because they'll be gone and you'll have to start over with someone new.

The second important key is the flow of events during a kissing experience. You don't want to just attack someone like a sandwich with your mouth wide open, your tongue hanging out, dripping wet with anticipation. If you do, the whole act will be awkward for you and your partner and afterwards you'll have a hard time proving yourself worthy of your partner's lips during future encounters. Approach the whole situation just as you would a strange explosive device that you are about to attempt to disarm. Move in slow, with great care and gentle caution. Initial contact should be lips only, firm yet gentle.