It may feel uncomfortable at first, because you've
taught yourself to regard anything in the rectum as dark and dirty,
and you'll want to push it out. But take it easy; try letting your
finger rest there as you're masturbating. You may feel a little
burning or irritation, but this will turn to pleasure if your masturbation
is feeling good. If you like, climax with your finger inside, and
see how it feels. If all this seems good to you, keep up the exploration.
If it bothers you, withdraw and try again later; take you time.
Once you get used to having your finger inside, you can discover
new things. Stick you finger all the way in. Then feel around inside,
gently, (and for guys especially:) as you masturbate, until you
touch on a silver-dollar sized, round lump behind you testicles.
this is your prostate gland, and you'll know when you've touched
it because it'll feel hard and nice. If there's a sharp pain, however,
withdraw your finger and go see a doctor, because it means your
prostate might be infected. Otherwise, try moving your finger up
and sown against the prostate as you masturbate. This will probably
feel very good. Also you'll notice that you can squeeze and unsqueeze
you anus around the finger.
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