Besides just mouth to mouth action, you'll probably want to try
kissing other areas of your partner's body at some point in the
relationship, depending where you are right now. Gentle kissing
or nibbling of the earlobes can be extremely sensual for either
gender. Just as women love to be touched and caressed, you may also
find your partner loves to be kissed in the same sensitive areas
as mentioned earlier. The most affectionate and most sensual type
of kiss I remember giving a past lover was one on her forehead.
I took my hand and placed it softly on the back of her head, slowly
drew her toward me, and gave her a single, slow kiss on her forehead.
Every time I did this her reactions always showed me that she knew
how much I cared for her, and for us this was one extremely intimate
act that meant a lot to both of us.
Through all of the technical details of sexual kissing, just remember
that most important aspect is letting your partner know how much
you care for them and making them feel good. If you falter at first,
with time and experience you'll get better. Feel free to experiment,
learn what they like and how they like to be kissed by varying your
methods. Once you reach the point of being able to communicate on
a completely non-verbal and spiritual level while you kiss your
partner, you'll know you've been doing something right.
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